On married subs and ft

Posted by: ztrade

On married subs and ft - 05/23/20 05:59 PM

In a different thread one domme or some subs said that most suns were married.

Is it a bit strange when a domme is providing or imposing ft on a sub who is married? Or, does that not happen much?
Posted by: AspX

Re: On married subs and ft - 08/19/20 01:53 PM

Originally Posted By ztrade
In a different thread one domme or some subs said that most suns were married.

Is it a bit strange when a domme is providing or imposing ft on a sub who is married? Or, does that not happen much?


Why would ft being part of a session be any different than any other session activities with a married client?

I would understand if you are asking about the Domme's attitude towards married clients in general but I don't get why ft would be different than body worship, impact play, nipple torture or any other session activity in relation to the marital status of either the Pro Domme or the client.
Posted by: jacky b

Re: On married subs and ft - 08/19/20 08:35 PM

i'm guessing the issue compared to other activities would be the potential for disease transmission? And then the sub interacting with his/her wife? Not saying that happens often, or at all, but glad i had ultimate faith in "my" Domme in this regard. Thoughts?
Posted by: AspX

Re: On married subs and ft - 08/20/20 10:24 AM

Originally Posted By jacky b
i'm guessing the issue compared to other activities would be the potential for disease transmission? And then the sub interacting with his/her wife? Not saying that happens often, or at all, but glad i had ultimate faith in "my" Domme in this regard. Thoughts?


I would think if a Domme had a concern about disease transmission they would care about the sub himself and anyone the sub interacted with (if the disease they were worried about was transmissible to others through normal contact). Plus, if the sub ended up sick then being married would actually be a better thing since they would gave someone to help take care of them since the Domme certainly isn't going to do that (and I do believe that Dommes do care about the well being off their clients).

I am naive when it comes to this subject but I would think the diseases you would worry about from this activity wouldn't be transmissible to anyone else who wasnt literally consuming... Just like getting sick from eColi isn't a risk to anyone who doesn't eat the same thing. But, even if something was transmissible to others through contact wouldn't that same concern be there for people the sub was dating? Which, if not married, could actually be multiple people rather than just one?

I still don't get the specifics of why the marital status of the sub would be of concern for this specific activity above any other session activity.