Was there a specific time when it all just clicked and you realized, "Holy cow, I'm into kink?" For me, it was when a co-worker and I went into an adult book store to get a gag gift for our boss. There was a room full, to the brim, of BDSM gear. I was in my 20's and somewhat naive on such things. Yet, I was fascinated. It took a few years for me to act on it. But, the seed was planted that very day.