A couple of months ago I had my first femdom session after years of contemplating. In all the session was very good and I enjoyed every second of it. If my lifestyle would allow it I would have seen one every day or if I could find a lifetime partner even better!

Before the session she said that out of session we are our normal selves but inside session you belong to me and that sounded erotic actually.

However during the session she said that I am there to satisfy her needs and not the other way around and that confused me a bit. During the session I stayed in my role and said yes and enjoyed being controlled by another person for an hour withing my set limits and red lines.

My question is, does she know that out of session I am actually seeing her to satisfy my needs and not hers just as she sees my to satisfy her own desires and not mine?