This is a question for everyone - Dominas and submissives. What do you think of Holiday sessions? Were they / are they special? Maybe it is because a lot of Dominas and subs are out of town this time of year?

I session rarely now, but when I did I got a real charge out of sessions around the Holidays. Yes, it was the spirit of the season. And from some companies I worked for I got a bit of a bonus so extra cash can always get one in a good mood... or get one a bit more kinky.

Around Thanksgiving, after entertaining visiting relatives and friends for three days by Sunday AM of that weekend for more than a couple of years I'd visit Mistress Melora who was in the East 60s at her studio apartment. It was intimate and we had to be a bit quiet since I'd visit around 9 or 10 am... and I did what I was told, and a bit more. LOL!

The same was true in this week, the days between Christmas and New Year's. I love my family and friends but the stress of the season sometimes got to me. Plus... I wanted to do something for my kinky side. Again, this was back in the late '90s, I'd see Melora or Mistress Dawn, a mature blonde "massusse" and Domina who also was in the Upper East Side. Dawn, like Melora, worked out of her apartment and those early morning sessions where we had to be relatively quiet were, again, intimate and pretty special. (Both advertised in the old classified section of New York magazine.)

And it didn't hurt that I'd bring along a bit more cash as a Holiday present.

Do you like sessions this time of year? What special sessions do you remember?

One Christmas I was moving from one state to another. My personal slave and, two clients/friends were helping me. For Christmas day we rented a cabin in the mountains with a hot tub on the deck. We had a fantastic meal, spent time in the hot tub and, had just enough play time that it was fun but didn't rule the whole time. It was a lot of kinky fun mixed with personal socializing.

I can imagine where doing a session or, play party on New Years Day could be entertaining. All sorts of games come to mind. Perhaps, one slave begins the evening with a certain amount of clothespins and, one is creatively removed at every hour. Another one gets his balls shocked every hour. Then, what to do at mid night??? Hmmmm.....

Hello junglebeast and happy holidays. The week between Christmas and New Years is historically slow and I usually take that time to recharge. I hate turning down sessions but that is the one week that usually do. However, starting about now I begin jonesing for a session.

Happy New Year to you Mistress Ayn. I’m at the airport off to a convention I’ve gone to for years. By the time I’m back I’ll be primed, as usual, for a post Holiday session with my longtime Mistress.

This Christmas I had a sub who was going through a tough time. His mother was in the hospital and it was not looking too good, so needless to say he was not having a good Holiday. He confided in me that it was becoming way too much, and asked if we could please session. I managed to leave my family for a bit to play with him. He came to me obviously very stressed out, but his face afterwards was so worth it. I'm glad I was able to bring him to Nirvana for a while and take his mind off of things. We both had a great time.

That’s great

Whoever said that BDSM wasn't therapeutic? Thank you for that heartwarming story.

I agree with everyone else... Thank you for being kind and caring enough to do that session when you had planned to be off for personal time. I hope that if I ever need a session like that, I will have a Domme who cares enough about me that they will make time.

Hell of a wonderful thing you did Mistress. Hat’s off to you.

I'm late with my reply, but I'm sure you will find a Domme that's right for you one day