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#6660 - 09/16/19 05:25 PM Chastity: How Long Is Too Long?
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I'm getting almost nonstop requests for chastity training, and keyholding. I'm starting to wonder if being locked up is the number one male fantasy!

I don't do distance training, unless I've seen a sub in my dungeon first. If I did, I won't have time to do anything else.

When a sub comes to me for chastity training, I generally start with three days. I extend the duration for one week, then two. I don't like to keep a sub in chastity more than a month without release, due to health reasons.

I've known Dommes who've kept long term subs locked up for years.

Have you ever been in Chasity?

How long did you remain in the device?

How long is too long?
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#6663 - 09/16/19 08:04 PM Re: Chastity: How Long Is Too Long? [Re: MsRoseWoods]
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This is a subject dear to my heart. I have started doing more chastity play in the past few years, mainly because devices have gotten better and technology makes monitoring and keyholding easier.

I concur with you for the most part about a gradual increase in length but it depends greatly on the sub. As far as what it too long, I definitely agree that an orgasm a month is a requirement. One reason is prostate health as you mentioned and the other is that a sub needs to remember what he is missing. At some point just being locked away offers no challenge. Now, I didn't say it had to be a good orgasm . . . ;-)
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#6665 - 09/16/19 09:20 PM Re: Chastity: How Long Is Too Long? [Re: MsRoseWoods]
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The longest i've ever done no orgasm chastity caging is 5 days.

I don't know if there is a too long, i'd stay locked up for years if a domme I was attracted to demanded it of me, but i'm obviously not a good authority on that since my record is so small haha.

I've never done too much chastity play mainly because it seems something that's only really conducive to lifestyle play. To do something like that which is meant to be a long-term investment kind of thing with a pro-domme is expensive as hell, i've seen rates of hundreds per week, i'd rather just spend that money on in-person sessions instead, however I do I like to show up to sessions caged though.

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#6671 - 09/17/19 02:11 AM Re: Chastity: How Long Is Too Long? [Re: MsRoseWoods]
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Anything longer than an hour is too long
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#6672 - 09/17/19 02:14 AM Re: Chastity: How Long Is Too Long? [Re: Mistress Ayn]
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Originally Posted By Mistress Ayn
devices have gotten better



*James Cagney voice* They ain't built a jail that can hold me, see...
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#6673 - 09/17/19 02:16 AM Re: Chastity: How Long Is Too Long? [Re: AspX]
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I take that back... Anything longer than 30 minutes is too long
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#6675 - 09/17/19 04:25 AM Re: Chastity: How Long Is Too Long? [Re: MsRoseWoods]
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Never done it long term with a Pro Domme. I did have one Domme that used to start the session putting one on and only take it off either for CBT or before the session was over. Of course that’s more chastity play than long term. Only other time was with a lifestyle partner.

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#6682 - 09/17/19 08:25 AM Re: Chastity: How Long Is Too Long? [Re: gimp]
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Do you remember Mistress Brianna from DC? She was something else when it came to chastity. She'd keep her guys locked up for months but, have them come in for a session in which they would have a release through a prostate probe. They got the physical relief and, the "Mind fuck" but, no orgasm joy.

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#6687 - 09/17/19 09:07 AM Re: Chastity: How Long Is Too Long? [Re: AspX]
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Well, you are "special".
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#6692 - 09/17/19 10:44 AM Re: Chastity: How Long Is Too Long? [Re: Cheyenne]
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So almost like a ruined orgasm then?

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