Originally Posted By Mistress Ayn
Agreed. We walk a fine line of being a "provider" and being truly dominant. They don't always align.


Mistress, this may be off topic, but I always described sessions as "Disneyworld for adults."

About my specific "jungle" scene I've often told Dominas that it is really, "An 'R' rated B-movie from the 1950s or '60s."

I'll add that in the period when I was sessioning with dominant female bodybuilders, and things really clicked, more than a couple asked about my attitude. I finally realized that subconsciously on the way to a session I acted like the Mistress was hiring ME for the session. Everyone has their way of mentally preparing for a session I guess.