Like many people I enjoy checking out the groceries of the person ahead of me in the checkout line.

I also like to peruse many prodommes wish lists.

Most are ordinary. Lingerie, shoes, kinky clothing, perfume etc.

Some are tacky. Whole Foods gift cards, actual food, etc.


A few are REALLY interesting. An interesting selection of books, gear for their hobbies, herbs, and supplements. Those are almost as fun as checking out other people's groceries at the market and trying to form a picture of the person from what they like to get.

Hi soapy. They can be a window into people's lives by revealing interests outside of Domination and kink. Mine often has gardening stuff on it, fall bulbs, kneeling pads, pruners, etc. are just a few of the things I have put on there and received.

I also have to admit to perving other Dommes' lists. Mainly because I want to see if they have found something cool on Amazon that I didn't know was available. I looked at one Domme's list that had a bunch of fast food gift cards. I just shook my head.

I've seen a few better-than-phone quality video cameras on wish lists. Nice to see that some who make videos care about quality. Of course some of those cameras are pretty complicated and it takes some learning and experience in order to get the best they're capable of out of them.

But then, pro dommes are like that, too.

I love especially looking at the books. I’m always like, ooh I read that or hmm haven’t heard of that, I should check it out. Kind of like a secret book club! I do probably read to much into it, oh we like the same authors therefore it would be a great session.

Ha ha ha!



That is a shame considering how hard many prodommes work to maintain their fitness.

The kneepads made sense and seemed thoughtful. But the pruning sheers....

But... gardening-related. Got it. That's a relief.

Hahaha. Well, I do like to show people that I appreciate the gift they give me and I believe they make their choices for a reason, so . . . I used the pruners in a session with the giver and did a little mind fuck with castration fantasy. Great fun.

Seriously though, when I get things like flower bulbs, I think of the giver each year when they bloom. Sometimes it's the ordinary, unsexy things we appreciate the most. I had someone give me an electronic toothbrush off my list and some people laughed, but I think of that guy twice a day now. That's not going to happen if you buy me a sexy outfit.

I have to admit occasionally reading wish lists which for me is a little voyeuristic because I never use them. At the beginning it is pretty easy to find a small safe neutral gift for a session and I do not feel the need to make a special gift until I really get to know and understand a mistress. By that point I really think that a gift has to be a surprise, something she does not expect. So it is not going to come from a wish list.

Love this post. I'm so glad I'm not the only one who loves looking at others wishlist's hahaha.

Same. I frequently think of and appreciate the sub who bought my humidifier. It may not be a "sexy" or "romantic" gift but I use it every day all winter long and it makes my home significantly more comfortable. Excellent service on his part.