Originally Posted By subjohn
More often now Mistresses are requiring references in order to book. I don't mind this and can provide references but if I am trying to get something set up within a couple of days this can be a problem. Sometimes the Mistresses I give as references don't get back to the one asking and that jams me up with scheduling and kind of makes me look bad. Is there a way to make this go more smoothly? Do some Mistresses just not like providing a reference?


As with anything, the more you plan ahead, the more likely something will go smoothly.

When you're trying to book a Domme only a couple days in advance and she doesn't have any idea who you are, be prepared that it won't happen.

I always suggest that clients check with the Dommes they want to use as references before they provide them to me. That way, the Domme is aware and ready, and I'm less likely to have to send multiple messages on your behalf.