I have to add this. Thinking about this the past day or two the word "privileges" cropped up, separately, with both Mistresses I became friends with. In both cases they reminded me the intimacies we shared were privileges that each one could be eliminate immediately.

My feeling is that when barriers come down between a Mistress and sub, such as sessioning in Her home, is a very heady experience even for the most experienced of subs. It is quite intimate and, if you're not careful, could be addictive and destructive for one, if not both parties involved.

In my experience I was never a lover or "significant other" of the two Dominas I mention. We never switched. Yet the physical intimacies I was encouraged to provide - massage and grooming to name two - I know would never be offered, advertised, promoted, etc. by any Mistress I've ever heard of. The whole experience with both was highly intoxicating, but as I said, could be destructive if you can't accept it the proper way.

I don't know if this makes any sense to anyone, but I had to share.