Well aren't you sweet.

I am surprised you have not heard of Empress M or Lady M (Who became Lady Magenta later on). There was another Domina M in New York for some time and while she was blonde, and I am not, well, model thin, I am pretty sure no one confused us.

The point being, very few women pick their names before coming on the scene. It is usually the first line of protection to start networking. I had a friend ask for help to enter the world of gay escorting and I told him to get a separate phone, email and name. I could not tell him what name in the gay escort world, because I do not move in those circles. I only told him that he needed to keep his personal life personal.