I love ANY type of play when you have the right partner.

I've done IM, email, phone, and real-time with people who seem to really hold themselves back or who don't understand this is an *interaction* and so it's boring. But with people who are as invested as I am and surrender into the experience? It's incredibly hot.

Quote:
"this trajectory is not uncommon as people get older -- that BDSM becomes more mental and psychological.


I think it's because as you get older your hormone levels decrease, so your priorities shift.

A few of my older clients have made mention that they can't "get it up" like they used to, but still love to play. It's because it's still hot *in their mind*.