It took me days upon days of reading web sites, online reviews and anything else I could find before I ever decided to pull the trigger and book my first session with a Domme. Even as a newbie at the time, the *one* thing even I knew and picked up on in my research was the need to be respectful in my approach.

IMHO, hitting up a Domme that I've never communicated with before and who has no idea who I am with a text that says "Are you available today?" along with a list of "activities" is (A) disrespectful and (B) a sure fire way to get rejected by, as you stated, any well established Mistress.

I get that everyone's different, but to me, part of the experience of a great session is the anticipation leading up to it. It's not like I'm out running errands and make a last minute decision on what fast food joint to stop at for lunch. No, a session with a Domme is something that needs to be anticipated... or at least it is for me, that is.