Appreciate the reply Mistress Ayn. Definitely agree this board has been great on the subject and I have a lot of great pointers.

Always been great with numbers and never with words. Plagues me to this day. I will definitely use your twist in words.

Spot on in saying the Dommes I saw were young. This goes to another subject which is most Dommes are new, young, and so it comes with caveats. I am finding the older ones have been slowly retiring or unavailable as they have older people to look after. This makes scheduling of sessions extremely difficult. No fault to their own on this.

I am in the Raleigh area. Used to live in Charlotte. I have come to the conclusion that if I want to session it will have to be there as I have given up locally. My problem is too many scenarios go through my head about traveling there and back in a single day