Unfortunately most subs are reduced to using an inadequate device and have a bad experience (rubbing, pinching, etc.) That shouldn't happen. That being said, chastity play is not for everyone. Your engorged cock pressing into the cage in the middle of the night is a real reality - making sleep illusive. It's that little reminder that your orgasms aren't your own anymore. Sorry you had a bad experience.
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