In the past few weeks, I have had a few situations that made me think twice about pursuing. I was 5 min late for my dentists appointment and the pretty receptionist said "I will have to spank you"... Ummmm do you promise?
Checking in to the airport today, the woman at the ticket counter said to me " you have the longest eyelashes, women would kill for your eyelashes. " ....if you only knew what a sissy I am.....
After ordering at a restaurant, my order was confirmed by the 20something waitress with a "yes ma'am" and a profuse apology ...(it is OK, I can be a saucy wench indeed)...I am not a feminine appearing person in vanilla life, but I stop to think what would have happened if I did pursue these conversations.....

I can think of so many responses to each of these comments. Next time try it, and just see where it goes. That's how you make new friends . . .

A sub and I were out to dinner at a very upscale restaurant and he had his custom made collar on. The female server commented on the collar and asked what color the leather trim was. We told her it was dark green and she replied with "My collar is blue". We returned to that restaurant several times just so we could interact with her. You never know what can happen from a random conversation.

Thank you for your guidance Mistress Ayn! I lament these missed opportunities.... The next time I am in one of these situations, I will respond (in)appropriately and see how it goes! I will let the board know what happens!