Originally Posted By Mistress Ayn
Hello Princess Poison,

Welcome to the board.

Originally Posted By Princess Poison
I am not a kinky escort so don't think that is the same thing at all- not that there's anything wrong with that, it's just a different type of experience. I'm a skilled and sadistic Dominatrix who is always in charge. I also enjoy using My sexuality to control and torment men.


Using our sexuality to control and torment men is the essence of a Dominatrix. That's what we all do. A bizarre lady on the other hand offers oral contact and sometimes full service. Is that what the term "Erotic Domination" implies? Or am I missing something?

I would love for there to be a differentiation between the two but ideally it would be a clear term. Bizarre Lady is so unique that it begs the uninitiated to ask what it means. Erotic Domination sounds no different from Sensual Domination to me and I am not sure the average sub reading it would understand the offering - but like Maya Midnight said, the legalities in this country may always prevent that clarity.

If you feel comfortable elaborating here, please do.



Yes, of course you are right that We all use our sexuality. I meant in a more overt manner and I'm trying to tread lightly with what I say here wink

I'm going to avoid directly answering part of that but I find that most people who browse My site gain an understanding of what Erotic Domination means based on the way I describe it. I think you are right that the term alone is not overly clear, but with time and more widespread use, people will eventually come to understand what it means without explanation. I do think the word "Erotic" carries a slightly different weight than "Sensual". Sensual is a word that for Me, brings thoughts of gentle touch and tenderness. Erotic feels a little more charged. For now, and in this legal climate, I feel Erotic Domination is the clearest term I can use.