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#8368 - 11/21/19 11:21 AM Re: American Bizarre Ladies? [Re: Mistress Ayn]
Kneel4Her Offline
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Registered: 10/06/19
Posts: 104
Loc: GA
Originally Posted By Mistress Ayn


Using our sexuality to control and torment men is the essence of a Dominatrix.


I know it is the overwhelming majority, but it's not just men controlled and tormented by your sexuality. I have been plenty tormented. laugh wink

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#8372 - 11/21/19 03:52 PM Re: American Bizarre Ladies? [Re: Kneel4Her]
AspX Offline
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Registered: 07/08/16
Posts: 1073
Loc: Detroit
Originally Posted By Kneel4Her
Originally Posted By Mistress Ayn


Using our sexuality to control and torment men is the essence of a Dominatrix.


I know it is the overwhelming majority, but it's not just men controlled and tormented by your sexuality. I have been plenty tormented. laugh wink


Yea...

YEA!!!

Way to go right at Her kneel4Her

I can't believe how incredibly sexist Mistress Ayn is being... She knows She can torment any gender with Her sexuality... men, wonen, other... But, i was too scared to point it out laugh

Glad someone around here has some balls...
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#8374 - 11/21/19 04:26 PM Re: American Bizarre Ladies? [Re: AspX]
Kneel4Her Offline
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Registered: 10/06/19
Posts: 104
Loc: GA


Originally Posted By AspX


Yea...

YEA!!!

Way to go right at Her kneel4Her

I can't believe how incredibly sexist Mistress Ayn is being... She knows She can torment any gender with Her sexuality


Oh real cute Asp. Trying to insinuate i was being disrespectful?? Get me in hot water? smirk It was said with the utmost respect.

i have been doing incredibly well at controlling my smart ass mouth, but believe me, i can still manage to get myself in trouble. *Note to self next week... mute your damn phone before session*


Originally Posted By AspX


But, i was too scared to point it out laugh



Oh...somehow I doubt that. wink

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#8376 - 11/21/19 05:46 PM Re: American Bizarre Ladies? [Re: Mistress Ayn]
Princess Poison Offline
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Registered: 12/10/18
Posts: 10
Loc: Austin TX
Originally Posted By Mistress Ayn
Hello Princess Poison,

Welcome to the board.

Originally Posted By Princess Poison
I am not a kinky escort so don't think that is the same thing at all- not that there's anything wrong with that, it's just a different type of experience. I'm a skilled and sadistic Dominatrix who is always in charge. I also enjoy using My sexuality to control and torment men.


Using our sexuality to control and torment men is the essence of a Dominatrix. That's what we all do. A bizarre lady on the other hand offers oral contact and sometimes full service. Is that what the term "Erotic Domination" implies? Or am I missing something?

I would love for there to be a differentiation between the two but ideally it would be a clear term. Bizarre Lady is so unique that it begs the uninitiated to ask what it means. Erotic Domination sounds no different from Sensual Domination to me and I am not sure the average sub reading it would understand the offering - but like Maya Midnight said, the legalities in this country may always prevent that clarity.

If you feel comfortable elaborating here, please do.



Yes, of course you are right that We all use our sexuality. I meant in a more overt manner and I'm trying to tread lightly with what I say here wink

I'm going to avoid directly answering part of that but I find that most people who browse My site gain an understanding of what Erotic Domination means based on the way I describe it. I think you are right that the term alone is not overly clear, but with time and more widespread use, people will eventually come to understand what it means without explanation. I do think the word "Erotic" carries a slightly different weight than "Sensual". Sensual is a word that for Me, brings thoughts of gentle touch and tenderness. Erotic feels a little more charged. For now, and in this legal climate, I feel Erotic Domination is the clearest term I can use.

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