I love saving money and I'm all about words like discount, sale, coupon, clearance...but there are some things you are not willing to skimp on so to speak. For instance I would not try to get discount Lasik eye surgery. When you're talking about paying a professional to possibly completely immobilize you, intentionally inflict pain on you but not send you to the hospital, humiliate you but not in such a way you snap or need to see a therapist, or do whatever other kinky stuff you like, I personally want to find the best and pay whatever the price is. He needs to quit whining, pay up or shut up.