Wow.... I have one question: Was it a high school or college English teacher? My comment on your decision is that you’re a wise person. As for the exact situation, nothing like that has ever happened to me, but something similar COULD have... at least in my sometimes paranoid mind.

This happened when I was about to graduate from college, after my first or second session of my life with my first Mistress, the legendary Belle de Jour back in the early '70s. We did a role play of her being Queen of the Amazons and me being a shipwrecked sailor dressed literally in a rag loin cloth. She wanted to take me to some Manhattan swing club and perform in public with her. I was very hot for Belle but I naively thought, “What would happen if someone who wanted to hire me saw me at the club?” I declined.

Years later I became a manager and thought how paranoid or uncomfortable I’d be if a job candidate came to me that knew I was at a swing club, or had been my Mistress! LOL!