Even if hand jobs weren't illegal in the US, I still can't see myself going there. It just doesn't feel like a naturally dominant act for me - especially if someone requested it.

I am glad you found what you seek in Germany. Bizarre ladies, of course, offer the more sexual side of domination but I haven't communicated with many subs that have opted to see then. I would love to hear about some of those sessions, though. Do share . . .