Originally Posted By Domina M
I don't like victim blaming, and I am sad this happened to anyone. It was an expensive lesson for her to learn. I hope she takes it to heart.


The point here is that it didn't actually happen to a findom or as part if a cashmeet. It happened to a completely different woman for an undisclosed reason and this "findom" tried to use it to create sympathy and ultimately money for herself. It is scum of the earth behavior that is not specifically emblematic of real findoms... But, IMO, is completely enabled by the culture of it.
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