I will say this, there's an argument to be made that some of these men are emotional cripples and these Fin Doms thrive and prey on them. An argument can also be made that we're all responsible for ourselves yadda, yadda as if to justify the shitty actions and thievery of some of these dubious Dommes. I'm not lumping them all into one category but there are some shitty ones out there. Then there are the men who pose as Fem Dommes online and rip people off.