That is a lot to ask for somebody coming to a first session. When I did that I tried to find out what activities I would like. At the second session I tried to find what were my limits. But that was a long time ago and maybe today newbies have more information available before they start.

For the most part, I enjoy playing with novices. It's so easy to blow their mind. On the other hand, they often need to be educated in Domme etiquette. Many don't "get" that just because they are excited doesn't mean they should send dozens of emails. These days they also think what they see in BDSM porn is what a session is like. Often it's the job of their first Mistress to provide this education, which is not always fun, but necessary.

Do you think it is a lot to ask? I really do need to know. The preperations and mood are really different if somebody wants humiliation than a heavy bondage or corporal. Completely different scenes and I am supposed to guess? Also, if someone is seeking body worship and more vanilla activities, they are not suited for me and better off with a traditional escort--less expensive, too!

My first time was Mistress Alicia in NYC. To this day, she is the most awesome Mistress I know . I was very nervous and she was very understanding . We still keep in touch to this day.

Mistress Alicia is one of the greats. I've had two sessions with her, and both were mind-blowing.