Originally Posted By Poester


Yep, that's what did it for me, last time. I had enough of this sort of stuff shoved down my throat in vanilla relationships to really sour it for me. Even a hint of findommery, which I look at as demands for money for "existing" essentially, makes me bolt.


Thanks Po ... For me, findommery comes down to whether I feel she has more interest in me as a wallet than as a person (beyond the specific "pay for service" arrangement of a session itself).
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