Good for you Buffalo and I hope that it gets even better in the 2nd session.

I had to think about this and although what you said feels right... I actually don't think it is my experience. For some reason that really doesn't make sense to me, my first session with a new Domme I really connect with always seems to be better than the next few. It's almost like, if it's too good the Domme is almost trying to recapture the feeling of the 1st rather than just playing and exploring like she originally did.

For me, the most growth comes whenever she really trusts me as a sub and she allows herself to really be who she is as a Domme rather than trying to play to my needs (which in a f'd up way, is actually playing to my needs). It is magical when it happens in a first session, which it sometimes does somewhere in the middle. But, my experience is that it can also happen in a 2nd, 3rd or even 4th session (and sometimes not at all).