My first experience with "let's go harder this time, maybe try for tears?" resulted with me deep in subspace.

After we were done, I looked at my bottom and was a bit shocked at it's sorry appearance. I was going to say something but she just smiled and shrugged her shoulders in a feminine way; like "oops". I got over it.

On a related note, The first time I saw a disciplinarian advertise "no safe word" I was appalled. Isn't this against the "rules".

But I could not stop thinking about it. It would certainly seem more like a "spanking" this way. I am thus undecided.