No surprise that i adore Mistress Ayn's philosophy but that is how She operates in a BDSM setting. A solid Mistress-slave relationship is based on trust and keen insight to what works for each. If a sub can continue to surrender to his Mistress and the Mistress understands what brings pleasure to Her slave (ans Herself, of course) - go for it. i hope to for as many years as i can.
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Mistress Ayn's slaveboy (formerly slave boy jaime)