I’m a client. This is a difficult question for me and my answer is probably going to be all over the place. Right now the biggest factor is I have very limited opportunities to play. I have evolved as a client and sub. I have learned through experience that for me the best bdsm definitely comes with staying loyal to one Domme as the better she knows me the harder she can push. Chemistry is so important and repeated sessions with the same person are what develops chemistry and a real relationship. On the other hand there are so many Dommes I like and would love to see if I had the freedom to do it that it would admittedly be hard to remain 100% loyal.

Right now I just saw someone locally and we had a great first session. As much as there are others here I’d like to see I intend to limit myself to her as far as seeing Dommes near me. However if I am lucky enough to travel to certain locations there are others out there who I could not resist sessioning with if I am able to. Plus there is an escort who does domination I have seen a couple times who I want to see again. Mix all this in with limited freedom and funds and it’s complicated.