I’ve probably done over 300 sessions over the course of years and only been given a safe word in a handful and in each case it was a surprise and unwanted. I like to be pushed in session and don’t like the idea I can just stop it by saying a color. I’ve always just trusted the Mistress to read me and know how far to go. I’ve always been able to get my point across by demeanour change when I got a non bdsm pain like a cramp or as I’ve aged been put into a stress position that is bad for my health. In the past 6 months I have played with 2 different experienced Dommes for the first time and a safe word was never discussed or given.
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And still trying to figure it all out.................. buffalo