It was great for us. A testimony to compartmentalizing, which my husband did comfortably. One week, he'd show up at Michelle Lacy's studio. she would answer the door in a latex nun outfit (To his surprise) and, make him confess all of his sins. The next week, she and, her partner would come over for a very vanilla family dinner. Perhaps, I am hijacking my own thread here but, that part of it seemed to come down to feeling comfortable in your own skin.