I think it depends on the situation. I travel. Sometimes I see a Domme and not again for 3 months because I am not back in that city. You are probably talking about local people who you see often.
I could see this happening to me as typically Dommes have liked me. I am easy to get along with and can make people laugh. Multiple Dommes and I have gone out for drinks and it wasn’t like we sat there drinking wine and talking about the world. We really went out for drinks like friends.
One Domme said to me after a few sessions and out for drinks that she wished I wasn’t married and lived where she did. It caught me off guard but I also took it as she liked me overall. Loved it but also bummed me that she felt that way and it wasn’t going to happen.
I go to a Domme for an escape. I guess my bottom line is I want variety in this field.

I've never been in a lifestyle relationship, but i'd likely be loyal to only that domme in a relationship like that, but that's the only way I can see ever being exclusive.
I have way too many interests and kinks for one pro to ever be able to cater to all of them so I wouldn't ever be able to stick to just one.

I’m a client. This is a difficult question for me and my answer is probably going to be all over the place. Right now the biggest factor is I have very limited opportunities to play. I have evolved as a client and sub. I have learned through experience that for me the best bdsm definitely comes with staying loyal to one Domme as the better she knows me the harder she can push. Chemistry is so important and repeated sessions with the same person are what develops chemistry and a real relationship. On the other hand there are so many Dommes I like and would love to see if I had the freedom to do it that it would admittedly be hard to remain 100% loyal.

Right now I just saw someone locally and we had a great first session. As much as there are others here I’d like to see I intend to limit myself to her as far as seeing Dommes near me. However if I am lucky enough to travel to certain locations there are others out there who I could not resist sessioning with if I am able to. Plus there is an escort who does domination I have seen a couple times who I want to see again. Mix all this in with limited freedom and funds and it’s complicated.

I go to a Domme for an escape. I guess my bottom line is I want variety in this field.

Yes, I completely understand that. A lot of my clients, even local ones are simply looking for a fun escape. A few of my dom friends over the years would take it personally if a client would bounce around and, see different ladies. I never did. Some times, with local clients, it would come to who was available on short notice. In the early days, when nearly everything was booked over the phone, I probably increased my sessions by 50%, due to answering the phone a few hours earlier than everyone else in my area.

I have way too many interests and kinks for one pro to ever be able to cater to all of them so I wouldn't ever be able to stick to just one.

You sound like a fun guy!

What you describe is representative of a lot of the local clients I saw. About half bounced around locally, the other have stayed with one dom, unless they were traveling. New England was a great place for session enthusiasts. It is so easy travel from one big city, like NYC to Boston, Providence, ect.

On a side note, I was looking at members here and I noticed that one of them is your previous husband, whom you mention here. It looks like he joined this site years before you or I did.

That doesn't surprise me. He was on all of the forums and, discussion groups. Quite the little on line slut. lol. There was a time when I was out of town and, my mother was staying with us. She, innocently, said to me on the phone, "Jack is sure working hard on his taxes. He's in the office all day, ever day with the door locked." That is when I sent him to Michelle Lacy for a confession session.

I do agree with your point about prioritizing some Dommes (or in your case a single one) over others when resources such as time or money are an issue. I just generally don't try to compare or rank women I have relationships with as each are unique and special in their own way. But, sometimes conflicts do arise when I do have to choose who to spend time with, I just don't base that decision based on being dedicated to a specific Domme every time.

I think we are all rational here, probably because this is something important to us. While the actions vary it is because of the wide range of personal circumstances and preferences.