I gotta ask you Cheyenne, you never worry that one thing could lead to another or if he was secretly happier playing with yours friends.

That is a fair question. I've seen friends who are swingers have those issues. But, we were completely monogamous when it came to sex and, had a family together. Playtime though, it was totally fine for him to have a blast with my friends. Although we played sometimes, it wasn't the same edgy play that a person would have when they weren't talking about who was picking the kids up from school or, what was for dinner. That may be odd but, for us, it was the best of both worlds. I liked he would have "Dom crushes" on my friends. It isn't as if he wanted to hold their hand and, walk through the park. He saw them in a different light...if that makes any sense. He was particularly nice that he could enjoy a married life and, not have guilt about getting his freak on now and, then.