I'm in the few times a year category. It's not that I don't think about it more often than that, nor is it that I have to sneak away, it's a matter of practicality. There's really only one kinky thing that turns me on, and that's traditional OTK spanking. But I'm fussy about it in a few ways, and I have found better opportunities out of town than at home.

If I find the right mistress (and I'm pretty good at ruling out ones that aren't going to work for me) I can leave smiling after a half hour over her knee. Most independent professinal disciplinarians don't want to do half-hour sessions (or will stop any time but don't want to take sessions for less than their full-hour rate), but most houses have a fair half-hour rate, so that's where I do most of my sessions. There are no such places where I live, so mostly I get my itch scratched when I go to Los Angeles where I have a few reliable favorites.

I don't want to fiind out what I'd turn into if there was someone here in town who would give me a $100 spanking whenever I needed one.