I wouldn't really have a problem showing her my id in person. My guess is she would forget my name as soon as I walked out the door. I am not famous or rich or think I am all that important but I do have concerns about privacy. I just don't want an electronic image of my id sitting in a Mistress's email inbox or computer file or any file. My greatest fear is not what she will do with it but what other's might do with it. I heard a story on one of the forums about a reputable Mistress who's boyfriend or husband got ahold of her client list and threatened to out them all if she didn't give his sum of money in the separation settlement. If all that was in the file or on her computer was my sub name, sub email and Google voice number, that couldn't happen even if it fell into the wrong hands.