In respect of unplanned sessions in which my original Mistress Vanessa was asking me to participate in forcedbi "opportunities" which were present in the Belle du Jour studio, I simply truthfully said "NO, thank you." I sis not want to do that, I was scared of the consequences and She understood even though She continued to push me in the same direction when I showed up again. Of course, when I showed up again, and asked for Her to be my Mistress, I knew I was playing with fire and that ultimately I would get burned (obviously not literally).

But then I became (under the aegis of a completely different Mistress), an experienced slut, and I had very few instances of "cold feet" but I did have more than one, and I handled it again as best as I could in a straight forward way with adequate notice of cancellation and partial tribute to the Domme, when appropriate.