My first was a bad experience. I went to a N. Cal. massage parlor, dominant masseuse and asked to be spanked because I'd read how the pain can turn to intense pleasure. She tied me kneeling and had at me with a large wooden paddle. Needless to say the pain only turned to more pain and the experience almost turned me off from the scene.

Then through the old "Berkeley Barb" I contacted a professional Domina through use of the SASE (now I'm dating myself but to all of you who've only texted and emailed, it's a self addressed, stamped envelope). She led me on a wonderful journey of enemas, bondage, spankings and cross dressing and I'm still at it to this day.