That’s exactly how I feel about rope and enemas. I always tell someone I am seeing for the first time that I am not into bondage for bondage sake but if she enjoys it then I’m fine with it which is true. And I have had some great intense sessions where I was slowing immobilised with rope and straps while being tortured with different implements. The building of the restriction and discomfort by an unrelenting Domme I loved and trusted made for a great session.

As for enemas I love strapon and always do a couple Fleets before a session but sometimes it isn’t enough so the Domme will administer a bag enema. It’s ok but not my favorite activity. As you say it takes up too much time although there is some humiliation involved with the Domme standing over me while I try to expel it all.