“What the fuck is normal “ could be a whole separate discussion topic. It all depends on how one defines normal.

My foot and high heel fetish was just the start of my journey into bdsm which has blossomed into a whole cornucopia of activities too many to list. I’m wired the way I am and it is what it is. I’m not ashamed of it internally anymore and just accept it but the truth is if I could magically go back and erase it I would. I’ve done pretty well but my bdsm desires have definitely complicated my life in ways I could do without. I’ve had a lot of fun crazy experiences and met some very cool people but there have been off setting negatives. The subject of “ if you could get rid of your kink would you” has been the topic of a few discussions on Max.