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#5566 - 08/20/19 05:35 PM
Re: Preferred session length
[Re: subjohn]
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Registered: 10/13/15
Posts: 1320
Loc: Romania
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Two hours can seem like a long time and often a lot of money if you dont click. Agreed. I usually recommend 90 minutes for an introductory session but will do an hour if requested. Two hours is the maximum I will do with a new client unless they have excellent references and a good list of interests that I enjoy. I've also wondered if they want a 2 hour minimum so they can spend time talking. I had that happen once. We spend the first 15 minutes at least going over my kinks and stuff. I don't like a lot of chit chat before a session so I'm leery of mandatory session lengths. I can't speak for others but personally I don't like a lot of talk before a session. It can take Me out of My headspace. If a newbie needs to be reassured by having a little discussion, fine but otherwise I like to get right to it. If the person is new to Me, I go over safewords and do a quick recap of interests and acknowledge limits while I am inspecting them, putting on cuffs, etc.
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#5608 - 08/21/19 03:34 PM
Re: Preferred session length
[Re: Mistress Ayn]
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Occasional
Registered: 06/20/19
Posts: 41
Loc: Germany
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I usually do 2 hour sessions with my mistress i (try to) see on a regular base. For a first visit with an unknown lady i chose 60 to 90 minutes max. I can't speak for others but personally I don't like a lot of talk before a session. It can take Me out of My headspace. If a newbie needs to be reassured by having a little discussion, fine but otherwise I like to get right to it. If the person is new to Me, I go over safewords and do a quick recap of interests and acknowledge limits while I am inspecting them, putting on cuffs, etc. I second that! When you've done several sessions already, you really don't need to talk a lot prior the play. Usually we smile, greet, hug for a second and than transform into the session. So just after a couple of minutes, i am already down on my knees, humilated verbally and lately by consumating her piss. Then i hand over her tribute, gifts etc. and serve her a glass of champaigne. We cheer, i give her a foot massage and after that, somtimes i am allowed to sugest some activities she eventually will consider. Then i am totally hers for the remaining time. Afterwards, we finish up the bottle of champaigne and have a relaxed chat for quite some time. We talk about jobs, travel, familly, whatever... and hug again for goodbye.
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#5627 - 08/21/19 10:05 PM
Re: Preferred session length
[Re: Mistress Ayn]
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Sage
Registered: 07/08/16
Posts: 1073
Loc: Detroit
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But... But... I only like a lot of pre-session talk when its with You I am so crushed...
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#5628 - 08/21/19 10:22 PM
Re: Preferred session length
[Re: subjohn]
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Registered: 07/08/16
Posts: 1073
Loc: Detroit
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I absolutely prefer long and drawn out "sessions" that last for days or even weeks. However, I have special sort of hybrid Pro/Lifestyle relationships with certain Pro Dommes that have a lot more service involvement than dungeon-style play. They all started as normal hourly play, but have somehow morphed into situations that extend way beyond what I could afford if it was a normal Pro/client per-hour session.
But, to better answer what you are asking... What I book for sessions is generally 90 minutes to 2 hours because that hits the limits I put on myself for the amount I will pay for a given visit/session. But, at the end, I still always want more and it is just my self-discipline that stops it from going on.
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#5656 - 08/22/19 08:34 AM
Re: Preferred session length
[Re: subjohn]
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Registered: 08/15/19
Posts: 247
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2-3 hours is perfect for me. I havent done a 1 hour session in years. It just feels to short to really get into it. Something ive started doing more of is a 2 hour session followed be dinner afterwards so maybe that counts for a 4 hour session. There is no play at dinner just god conversation maybe its aftercare. Not every domme is up for it but ive enjoyed that arrangement.
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#5679 - 08/22/19 12:11 PM
Re: Preferred session length
[Re: Spark]
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Artisan
Registered: 10/19/15
Posts: 95
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Because I would rather session more often I only do one hour. Also there are certain things I like to do in the session, so after we have. I have satisfied my immediate needs I feel satisfied. All the best, wolf
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#6044 - 08/30/19 08:07 AM
Re: Preferred session length
[Re: subjohn]
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Member
Registered: 12/25/18
Posts: 10
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i've basically only seen two Mistresses, and been lucky enough to have had special rapport with both.
i started with Mistress with 2 hour sessions 20 years ago, and on special occasions (birthday, anniversary) would extend to 4. And i'd done a few overnight.
When i see the incomparable Vinyl Queen, one of us will be travelling and it is not all that frequent, so my base for Her is four hours now.
i think i'm to the point now where my answer might be "infinite". Honestly, i can spend 8 hours with Mistress and miss Her the next day.
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