Agreed. I usually recommend 90 minutes for an introductory session but will do an hour if requested. Two hours is the maximum I will do with a new client unless they have excellent references and a good list of interests that I enjoy.



I can't speak for others but personally I don't like a lot of talk before a session. It can take Me out of My headspace. If a newbie needs to be reassured by having a little discussion, fine but otherwise I like to get right to it. If the person is new to Me, I go over safewords and do a quick recap of interests and acknowledge limits while I am inspecting them, putting on cuffs, etc.

I usually do 2 hour sessions with my mistress i (try to) see on a regular base.
For a first visit with an unknown lady i chose 60 to 90 minutes max.


I second that!

When you've done several sessions already, you really don't need to talk a lot prior the play. Usually we smile, greet, hug for a second and than transform into the session. So just after a couple of minutes, i am already down on my knees, humilated verbally and lately by consumating her piss. Then i hand over her tribute, gifts etc. and serve her a glass of champaigne. We cheer, i give her a foot massage and after that, somtimes i am allowed to sugest some activities she eventually will consider. Then i am totally hers for the remaining time.
Afterwards, we finish up the bottle of champaigne and have a relaxed chat for quite some time. We talk about jobs, travel, familly, whatever... and hug again for goodbye.

But... But... I only like a lot of pre-session talk when its with You



I am so crushed...

I absolutely prefer long and drawn out "sessions" that last for days or even weeks. However, I have special sort of hybrid Pro/Lifestyle relationships with certain Pro Dommes that have a lot more service involvement than dungeon-style play. They all started as normal hourly play, but have somehow morphed into situations that extend way beyond what I could afford if it was a normal Pro/client per-hour session.

But, to better answer what you are asking... What I book for sessions is generally 90 minutes to 2 hours because that hits the limits I put on myself for the amount I will pay for a given visit/session. But, at the end, I still always want more and it is just my self-discipline that stops it from going on.

2-3 hours is perfect for me. I havent done a 1 hour session in years. It just feels to short to really get into it. Something ive started doing more of is a 2 hour session followed be dinner afterwards so maybe that counts for a 4 hour session. There is no play at dinner just god conversation maybe its aftercare. Not every domme is up for it but ive enjoyed that arrangement.

Because I would rather session more often I only do one hour. Also there are certain things I like to do in the session, so after we have. I have satisfied my immediate needs I feel satisfied.
All the best,
wolf

i've basically only seen two Mistresses, and been lucky enough to have had special rapport with both.

i started with Mistress with 2 hour sessions 20 years ago, and on special occasions (birthday, anniversary) would extend to 4. And i'd done a few overnight.

When i see the incomparable Vinyl Queen, one of us will be travelling and it is not all that frequent, so my base for Her is four hours now.

i think i'm to the point now where my answer might be "infinite". Honestly, i can spend 8 hours with Mistress and miss Her the next day.