junglepet, I mainly think about what would fit the scene, what is clean, what is comfortable, and My own whims. There have been days where I intended to wear something, like a special pair of stockings, only to have the previous session's sub snag them.

I have also had quite a few subs, shall one say, "spontaneously explode with glee?" For example, I have had My clothing hit by unexpected shooting bursts from restrained men several inches away. I don't mean while issuing JOI, where it's a predicted risk, and one can step back a couple of feet... but surprise situations.

That said, I entertain polite requests, depending on how they are phrased. A sub who tells Me he adores pencil skirts and throws in compliments about how My legs look in one that he saw in an ad, will likely see Me in a pencil skirt. A sub who shows up for a medical scenario, says something insulting and demands I change from a nurse costume into a "Mommy" nightie and corset, will, depending on age and experience, either learn a lesson, or be shown the door.

If someone wishes to purchase Me items that I like or find acceptable, I will wear those items. If they won't work, I will tell the sub beforehand, so he does not waste time and money on those items.

Originally Posted By junglepet
Mistress, every domina is slightly different. Years ago one would not dare to suggest what the Mistress would wear the first time serving Her for fear of being accused of topping from the bottom. In the past decade with dominas showing so many looks on their sites many, like you, are more flexible and dress close to what the activities or the roleplay call for. In my experience a couple of times when I became a longtime regular with a Mistress I was requested to buy a garment, even makeup, for a scene.
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