I love it.

It's like having my own pet dress-up doll to make pretty and torment.

I enjoy the humiliation aspect, as well as the beautifying aspect. It can be a useful tool to delve into someone's psyche, to find out what else triggers the humiliation response, and also put a submissive in touch with his receptive side. It's fun to watch the squirming, the flushing, the struggle they have within or without. But that can be said of humiliation in general.

I'm exceptionally skilled with sissy makeup, and it's gratifying to see a masculine male face, especially with a large or broken nose, or a lantern jaw, be reshaped into a very feminine face. It can be equally gratifying to see a prettyboy's feminine face reshaped into what could genuinely pass for female. It can also lead to a "ladies' night" kind of feeling and connection.

Sissy sluts are fun, especially when they react a lot to strap training, or are shy. Hehehe.

Sissy babies are also fun, and bring out My nurturing side.

"Forced bi" scenarios are so entertaining, and it's hot to see what someone will do with a little persuasion. I am cautious about doing those, if someone is either too new, or too new to Me. Some guys love the fantasy, but get cold feet right before, so I like to know the guy will go through with it, before making it happen. I have also seen the reverse, where someone is curious but hesitant about it, and then you'd think he was a starving piglet suckling on a teat.

they get cold feet the day before and email you, or they get cold feet when they have shown up and they ask to change the session type to a different type? How many go through with it anyway and how many change the type of visit or do not show up?

i have had an incident of cold feet but have been big enough to admit it, when it happened. I am unsure of how many times that really happens. It may be a convenient excuse when the real explanation is that the sub had not actually committed in the first place.

Cold feet meaning they flake out at the last minute. Some call and cancel, while others simply don't show up.

Perhaps you are right in that some never truly committed inside their own heads, even if they set an appointment or even confirmed it and claimed to be heading over. I think some men are willing to put up a deposit, simply to indulge the fantasy within their heads, and have a little extra phone time.

Once in a while, a guy will show and simply ask to change the session type, with only a hint of the original intent. Like him being forced to wear lipstick or panties, but the session is mostly CP, bondage, foot worship, NT, electro, hypno, etc....

When I was new to being a Pro-Domme, and hadn't yet learned the best ways to weed out most of the flakes, guys would frequently try to set up "forced bi" sessions, and then almost never show up. The sissies and CDs wanting transformations were nearly as bad. When the two were combined, aside from the rare pleasant surprise, I could almost bet the person would never show.

With time and experience, it becomes so much easier to spot the wankers, jokers, and others whom never intend to have an actual appointment. The downside is, some people seems sincere, follow the rules, and then panic at the last moment.

I have had no-shows apologize months, even over a year later, and then give gifts and tributes to make up for their previous behavior. They're not the majority, but they do exist.

you showed up for the appointment, said you had cold feet and asked to change the session type or ??

No.

Please re-read the previous posts. Thanks.

I was asking 2nd try how he had handled his own situation with cold feet . . . I somewhat assume that the domme does not have cold feet!

This thread reminds me of the only did dress-up only once in the mid-1990s, in the pre-Internet era and it was more "seduced femme" than forced. I found "Geena" in a New York magazine two or three sentence ad under "Role Play," with no pictures. The ad said she did "dominant role play and massage" and she was a "busty blonde." I learned those were code words for being a domina - plus an escort and masseuse.

In those days the you'd judge on the phone call it you wanted to make the appointment. She had this blunt, deep voice and accent that was a turn-on, saying stuff like "I'm veery Dom-Inate and veery, veery busty," etc. etc. I mean no offense by the accent. I can hardly speak on language and she could speak three. Curious and turned on, I made the appointment.

We met and she was as described: long blonde hair, 5' 5" or so and a thick, curvy figure, and large natural DD breasts to match her rear end and a nice light tan. And she was always in control and in her late 30s. She worked out her apartment, a large two bedroom in the East 50s off of 3rd. Toys but no equipment.

The first two times we did role play either doing the Amazon/jungleboy scene or a next door neighbor seduction. I was forced to strip for her, spanking, foot and leg worship, and she did talk bluntly. ""DID you ever see Tits dis Beeg before?" While shoving them in my face. And, "You gotta nice ASSS and Bigg cock for de Mistress." The first two sessions ended with straight which was and is highly unusual (not that I minded in the least) but she was, also an escort.

The third time I saw her she "you tink you wit dat Bigg cock tink you sucha stud, you nothin but a slut!" She orders me in the bedroom to take off my clothes, orders me to sit down on the bed and puts lipstick on me, rather sloppily I may add. "Put dis on and dat!" She pointed to a wig and a dress, "And high-heel too! Call me when you done!" And she walks out of the bedroom. Stunned, but turned on because, as usual her ample charms were falling out of her corset, I got dressed. I looked ridiculous. I call for her and she comes in.

"So, you stud, you so Horny to-day you want to be my bitch too?" I whimpered yes and then I was spanked, threaten to be exposed as a slut, foot and leg worship, critiqued for my walking in high heels, and I was examined. "You flat!" Meaning my chest. "Not like Mistress," and took off her bra. "Worship my Bigg tits!" I complied and my lipstick was all over her breasts and my face. On the bed she said softly, "Take off dat dress," and immediately the dress, wig and high heels come off. The session ends the way the first two did. When we were done she turns over and grins, "I wanted to make you my bitch but your cock too Beeg!" And she laughed. We both did.

I saw her a couple of times more after that. She was a nice, funny and earthy woman. Hope she is fine.

In respect of unplanned sessions in which my original Mistress Vanessa was asking me to participate in forcedbi "opportunities" which were present in the Belle du Jour studio, I simply truthfully said "NO, thank you." I sis not want to do that, I was scared of the consequences and She understood even though She continued to push me in the same direction when I showed up again. Of course, when I showed up again, and asked for Her to be my Mistress, I knew I was playing with fire and that ultimately I would get burned (obviously not literally).

But then I became (under the aegis of a completely different Mistress), an experienced slut, and I had very few instances of "cold feet" but I did have more than one, and I handled it again as best as I could in a straight forward way with adequate notice of cancellation and partial tribute to the Domme, when appropriate.

I kind of love forced femme. I like things I am not supposed to like so there is some inner torment. I also like the outrageous. I was first fucked as a sissy in 1997 and have been on the receiving of the strap on many times since. I am definitely on the slut side of the spectrum. I try to get into the session a lot and let various emotions show, I think that helps connect with the mistress. There are many, many mistresses that are givted in the art if strap on fucking, but the build up, feminization and humiliation beforehand are almost as exciting to me as the act itself. (What girl doesn't want to be seduced before she is fucked silly, I like the foreplay) and I like a lot of talking during the fucking, there is not much hotter than a beautiful woman fucking you and telling you about what a cock hungry slu she is turning you into and how happy that makes her. For me this forced femme fetish is becoming a femme cuckhold and public humiliation fetish. Thanks for a great thread!