I don't disagree with you about the the new crop of findom practitioners and the Instagram model thing. I am probably just as down on the twerking twentysomethings posting their brunch bills and asking for a sub to pay for it as you are.

I just think that there are high-level dommes who do this as a form of mental/psychological domination and, speaking from experience, those buttons can get pushed just as hard as a cane stroke. But, yeah, you have to have the stomach and will to go there, and I think that the findom scene in general is probably pretty depressing and on whole less "healthy" than face-to-face BDSM.



I would love to on the next trip to Paris! Both the OP and I are people who played face to face in the pro scene and now for whatever reason -- perhaps an antisocial one -- are gravitating to online. I would really like to get back to just being in the room with the person who is dominating me.