"really cruel" as in bad or "really cruel" as in good?

Well, if a domme said she would cane me and take her shirt off and then didn't take her shirt off, I'd regard her as an idiot I don't wish to see again. . . and if I wrote a review of her, I'd make that clear. I mostly only write reviews of those whom I regard highly or favorably and I suppose that once in a while I write a review in order to get a free week or two of access to a review site . . .

but if a domme or a massage practitioner or whomever acts in such a way, they guarantee that I will write a clear, negative review . . .

It is not a problem (to me and to most people) for a domme to "not keep" a "promise you/she never made" to take your/her shirt off during teasing and it can be fun when combined with other factors . . . but I don't see dommes or other people in life to have them break an agreement of a matter so light . . .

I avoid such idiots and assume the best of people that they will not behave that way . . . and if I were to behave that way, I would lose my employment . . .

I don't have a problem with a session that might be a bit vague and have mystery and surprise. I even try to encourage dommes to create mystery sessions for me . . .

Though, thanks for adding your feedback; I wish some dommes would routinely create sessions like this. Maybe some of them do and I just don't know it cause I haven't visited them.