That's not my thing, but spanking is. I was going to the Dallas area for work and was tempted to see a domme there who promoted herself on her web site as specializing in domestic discipline. She agreed to meet for coffee to discuss a session. and, if we were in tune, we'd go back to her place and do it.

When I told her that I was seeking a plain ol' bare hand OTK spanking, she told me that she couldn't do that. Apparently, at the time (or as she interpreted it) a bare hand on a bare butt was considered "sexual contact" and that, when pay-for-service is involved, was illegal. She could spank me with a paddle over a bed, but that doesn't do anything for me but hurt, so I passed.

While I haven't been back to Texas with time for a spanking since then, there seem to be a few disciplinarians there who, according to their web sites, specialize in my flavor of spanking kink. So either that never really was "the law," the law had changed (unlikely), or they just don't care any more.

All I can say is Thank God not everyone follows the law. Especially when it comes to unharmful fun.
You should have suggested taking her out to a nice dinner and then going back to her place to get spanked. Isn’t that the way it works outside of BDSM?
Ladies, in no way am I suggesting all it takes is dinner but you know where I am going.

And by the way I am pissed at you Cheyenne. I used to go to Columbus every month from 2000-2006. The word on the street was Cheyenne doesn’t do strapon. Then I find out recently that you eventually embraced it. Damn you.
I am joking about being mad but I missed out.