A welcome safety valve that others in past ages simply did not have.

Agreed Soapy,

I don't know if it was nature vs nurture, but I know I didn't simply choose to have these submissive and masochistic desires whose public airing would render me a pariah in vanilla society. I'm extremely grateful to the professional female dominant sadists that allow me to express myself and fulfill these needs rather than live a life full of pent up unhealthy repression. I owe you my sanity and my gratitude.

Thank you.

Yep, it would have sucked to have been born 1890 or North Korea where you couldn't have done anything about it.

It's the people that appreciate us that makes Prodomming such an amazing, intimate, and fun experience Thank you as well.

There are a great many things that I appreciate about Pro Dommes. Over the years I have learned that the most successful, long term Dommes are first and foremost incredibly creative and intelligent. The creativity applies to their ability to plan and execute fantastic sessions that keep their clients coming back for more and the superior intelligence is typically evident in how they run their businesses.

Not suggesting that these are the only qualities necessary (courage is a given) but any woman aspiring to be a successful long term independent Domme absent these qualities will, IMHO, face a difficult challenge.


One final important note. I don't think that any Domme would succeed without a fantastic work ethic.

I don't think I can improve on your response, Jack, so I'm not going to try.

Agree 100%

THIS

+1000

Thank you so much for posting this, Soapy. You're a class act.

I have been a pro-Domme since 2008 and appreciate all of my many wonderful clients, but also fun people like you who I've met through the scene.

Much love.

Thanks for this, Soapy.

I'm not sure how aware our clients are of everything that goes into what we do, including the sometimes great legal risk we face.

Some Dommes are risking losing everything -- relationships, children, family, house, other jobs, freedom -- to provide spaces for people to just express their kinks.

So the next time some of you want to complain about our tribute, please think of this.