There are so many aspects of D/s that motivate my involvement in this lifestyle: the exhilaration of surrender, giving myself to a Mistress, and pleasing Her. Every scene I've participated in has involved some permutation of those themes.

Yet, I've always been drawn to the therapeutic aspects of BDSM. The possibility of catharsis, letting go of stress and hurts, and the post-session feeling of peace and contentment has always been present for me (to greater or lesser extent). This is especially true of scenes that involve heavy corporal punishment characterized by genuine pain & suffering.

Having said that, I am aware there are cautionary markers: if you feel burdened by something that consumes you, professional counseling may be more appropriate. Also, I don't want to contribute to the perception that those involved in BDSM are somehow psychologically damaged people who are simply acting out neurotic behavior via paddles and whips.

I'm interested in your thoughts, from Mistresses or other submissives.

Thanks.