For the love of everything holy, I need as much notice as possible. 24 hours notice is a 50/50 gamble and same day sessions with me are almost a no-go except for slaves I am very good friends with and they are having a 'serve-mergency' where they have to see me. Those sessions and play usually involve taking me to dinner and conversation if you do catch me same day.

I am a woman of leisure. I enjoy my hobbies and if you catch me last minute, I will probably choose staying in my pajamas watching television instead of doing a session, or crafting something for shits and giggles. Give me as much notice as possible

I prefer as much notice as possible. A month or a week is great or at least 24 hours. For me I like to know my schedule and plan my social life/private time around it. Also, more importantly, I prefer the type of client that plans and appreciates the anticipation.

When I meet someone and they say something like, "I re-watched your clips last night to mentally prepare for today, but I refrained from masturbating so I could be completely submissive for our session." (Or along a similar idea.) I think, 'Here is a guy with some devotion and discipline already. I am going to have a good time now."

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I was actually asking about the other end of the timetable. I was wondering if booking too far in advance (I'm not talking about months, but maybe two weeks) slips through the cracks. Maybe it's just my bad luck.



I completely understand that, which is why I don't expect instant gratification. But the other side of being a woman of leisure is that we may have been corresponding about a session for a couple of weeks but the day before, she decides there's something she wants to do and forgets that "tomorrow" she's supposed to be in the mistress business.

There is a big BIG difference between setting up a session and choosing to weave a basket instead of doing a session that day and, weaving a basket, getting a call to session out of the blue, and turning it down if you wish to spend more time crafting.

Sorry you have had such bad luck in trying to set up sessions. Again, I was speaking for myself, not others. Instead of telling you what you should think or do, I spoke about how I conduct my 'mistress business'.

If you want to get into details, slaves must contact me multiple times before we meet, especially the first time. Even my loyal slaves that see me regularly, they have to contact me the night before and in the morning to confirm. I want a thousand confirmations, maybe that will work for you?

Also, I noticed you only session when you travel. You are missing out on some great dominas that are in your hometown as well as those that are visiting.

Very well said.

I prefer more advanced notice. Domina M said it best in her post below.

I think the use of electronic calendars might be the biggest problem - especially if a Mistress is working from a phone alone. It's easy to put something in on the wrong date when you are working from something the side of a poptart ab best. I like redundancy so I use an electronic calendar as well as a paper one.