I don't believe that people are naturally submissive. This is something that you grow into, and a true submissive really needs a full time relationship,

This is so true, and what I wish I could find. I thought I had it last year with an amazing Domme but in the end our relationship became Pro only and I am glad our exclusivity ended on a totally Professional level. While I love to play and session, my true desire is to have both Pro and Lifestyle involvement with a Dommme.