I would very much agree with that, subfroggie. I once read that submissives internalize and fetishists externalize. That may be an oversimplification but I do think it explains why submissives look for that one true Domme and fetishists tend to jump around.

However, a smart fetishist knows how to hunt out someone that can accommodate him and may stick with that Domme if she fulfills that need. But because they are externalizing, they tend to get bored more easily and that would explain the jumping around. Usually, when I am approached by a long time fetishist, he has a list of references a mile long. That's usually not the case for more submissive clients.

I once had a foot fetishist here in Atlanta that I saw regularly. He would swear that I was the best and that I "got him". Yet every 3-6 months someone would contact Me for a reference. I didn't care but it was obvious he was captivated by the new, pretty face and wanted to give it a twirl. Eventually, we parted ways when his desire to control the session overcame My ability to deal with it. Now I guess he is back looking again.